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The problem is that my husband weighs between 85 and 89 kg. So when I asked him to lose weight, we started arguing. Although his weight gain was not bothering me at all, it was affecting our marriage. Not only this, I manage the whole house alone. I am not getting any help from them. That’s when my mother-in-law came to live with us. Since the arrival of his own mother, the husband has completely taken her side. (All photos are confidential and we are not revealing the identity of the person due to privacy reasons.) (Photo Courtesy :- iStock, Pexels, Freepik)
His behavior changed even more
Mother in law started complaining about me to husband and he also started balling me with her. One day we had a big fight over all these things, after which my husband forcibly sent me home. During this time I called them several times but they did not pick up any of my calls. Even when my father finally came to leave my in-laws, my husband did not change his behavior. He kicked me out of the bedroom in front of my father. This time my father didn’t say anything because he was worried about me. But he started bothering me more. Tired of their behavior, I lodged a complaint with the police. The trial has not started yet. My parents are with me. I don’t know if I did it right or wrong?
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Answer from the wise
Vishal Bhardwaj, founder of Prediction for Success and Relationship Coach, says that a husband-wife relationship is never suddenly headed for a breakup. A lot of things happen for a long time and the relationship reaches a point when the tolerance is over, the limit is crossed. I would simply advise that you don’t stay in a relationship that suffocates you because it ends badly. But I am also of the opinion that if there is even a glimmer of hope, you should take the initiative to save the relationship.
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Your mother-in-law’s role
A person often takes wrong decisions in anger. When one partner cannot think clearly in anger, it is the duty of the other to act with restraint. But when both of them lose their patience, a rift is created in the relationship without realizing it. At the same time, many parents tend to add fuel to the fire. He doesn’t see your mistakes. They only feel sorry for the other person. But it is also true that when a relationship breaks down, it is the parents who blame you. Your mother-in-law seems to be playing the same role now.
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Need friendship in relationship
As you mentioned, even after three years of marriage, there is no love in your relationship. In such a situation, I want to ask first, is there no friendship in your relationship? In order to love in a relationship, there must first be friendship, because through friendship comes trust and through trust comes true love. If not, there will be no love. In such a situation it is important that you start friendship first and strengthen your relationship. I would say that your in-laws family is also responsible for this situation as they may not have given you that much freedom.
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Don’t make hasty decisions
I think some days you should not be in-laws. Go to your home. Give yourself time when the thoughts in your mind do not stop, there is no solution. It is also dangerous for you to be in-laws when your police complaint shows no results. If the police are going to act, you should stop them right now. Because if you want to give a relationship a second chance, don’t let this happen.
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