When children think of their parents, the parents’ samskaras appear. Sanskars imparted by parents unknowingly on children empower children. Today we are going to learn about some such experiences. (Photo courtesy of iStock)
The daughter married her father again
Ramesh Shah of Vadodara tells how his daughter Kinjal prepared him to remarry during the lockdown. 62-year-old Shah married 64-year-old Meenakshi Pandya in July 2020. Ramesh Shah says that there was a restriction on my travel. So I used to avoid meeting Meenakshi. But my daughter used to help me and constantly follow all this.
Kinjal said that she lives in the same city. But it was not possible to take care of my father. I don’t want to know whether they have eaten or not, or how they are doing. Constantly worried. I thought he felt lonely after his mother passed away in 2018. So I decided to remarry him. It is more important that they get love.
The children prepared for their father’s pleasure
On Makar Sankranti, 72-year-old Dileep belted out the Bollywood tune ‘Aaja Aaja Main Hoon Pyaar Tera…’ wearing a red T-shirt. Surrounded by his new wife, children and grandchildren, Dileep felt true happiness for the first time in years. The covid pandemic had wreaked havoc on his family. Wife passed away in August 2020 after battling cancer for several years. Dilip’s son and daughter are both married and busy in their lives. Dilip was left alone after his wife left. He decided to find a new life partner. Took help from an NGO. At first the boys were a little hesitant but soon they agreed. Dileep tied the knot with 63-year-old Durga in October last year.
This decision taken by the children is being appreciated everywhere. Parents have made children so capable and responsible that children think about their parents’ happiness every moment. For this, parents should teach their children these things.
Allow children to make decisions
Allow children to make decisions from an early age. Let children make small decisions at an early age. Which class do they want to go to? Do you want to go out with your parents or stay at home? Children can make good decisions as they get used to choosing what is good for them. They are not afraid to make decisions and can think about what will benefit them by making decisions.
Learn to think of the other person
Parents should teach children to think about others from an early age. Children should think about what the other person will feel when making any decision. Only through this, children will think well of their parents. Everyone wants support. There is no age limit for that. Knowing this, children can make strong decisions when considering their parents’ new partner.
Teach children to always be grateful to everyone. Everyone needs this gratitude. When the children can think like this, they will happily accept the new partner of the parents. Because because of this new person, our parents are going to experience that love or happiness once again. When this feeling is theirs, children can make such a different and big decision for parents.
Teach children to think big
When children think big, they will notice everyone. Small, narrow thinking makes children self-centered forever. In such a case, if the parents do these rituals on the children from childhood, the children will be able to think bigger and differently. Children need to be aware of that situation while thinking so differently for parents.