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Same thing happened to me during pregnancy. I got married and found out I was pregnant in the third month. This was a pleasant shock before we knew it. But everyone was worried about how she would fare because my husband’s mother was a stepmother. So it was natural that everyone was worried even at home.(Photo courtesy of iStock)
Behavior of step mother-in-law
Even today, many people are afraid of the word stepfather. But my husband gave me this idea only when the marriage was decided. But to tell the truth, this fear was wrong for me. Because the way my mother-in-law decided not to give birth to another child in order to bring up my husband, it was predicted how loving and affectionate she would be.
Loved more than mother
My husband and step-mother-in-law started taking care of me more and more from the time I found out that I was going to be a mother. Both took care of me in every way, taking personal care of what I wanted or didn’t want. Especially my mother-in-law, I can rightfully say that she loved me more than my mother.
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Still afraid of the word stepfather
In fact, the word stepfather is still feared. After saying mother-in-law in it, more pressure comes. But this has never happened to me and I have been more fortunate in this regard. After getting married, in fact, when it seemed that all the responsibilities would be taken over, the real support came from her step mother-in-law.
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Seventh month shock
In the seventh month, my pain was very high. Usually girls go home after having dinner. But I really didn’t want to go home. But parents did not want to hurt by saying this. Noticing this behavior of mine, my husband and step-mother-in-law called my parents and in-laws and answered the question without speaking.
This one action of his did not stop the tears in my eyes. I am never tired of singing the sweetness of my own good fortune.
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There should never be prejudice in a relationship
There is always prejudice after saying mother-in-law, and even after the word stepson, the risk increases. But at the beginning of every relationship, these prejudices are not kept and if the behavior of the other person is judged, the relationship gets a different meaning.Anita Bhide commenting on relationshipsThis trick about maintaining relationships can be beneficial for everyone.
